oh grumble, hang in there....i know how hard it is to be in your shoes right now.....i've been there myself.....keep showing your support and love for her....YOU keep sending e-mails and such......trust me, it will help her thru this awful time in her life, even if she doesn't get to respond like you'd like her to....."love is patient. love is kind"......i do wish you the best.......and like bigbear said, count on your friends at pixies