I for one am into it very much sometimes. I am fortunate that my S/O is into it as well. Sometimes I wish he would be rougher, but it gets more better with time as we expand on our limits. It is hard for someone to know the limits to another person's pain/pleasure limits. Maybe after a really good session, tell him how much it turned you on when he really seemed to lose control.

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If you won't listen to reason, there's always... Towanda!... Kathy Bates~Fried Green Tomatoes