With the porn industry being multi-billion at this point, I don't know how easy it would be to search out movies by Candida Royalle. She was a starlet in the 80's, I believe, that turned to directing and producing adult films. Her films were geared towards couples and focused on a woman's point of view. It may take some searching, but they might be what you're looking for.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.