i agree with you there, d. nice guys tend to have trouble in many respects. ICT may be right about signals. we all tend to miss them at some point or another. sometimes you may become lost in what you feel for the other person that you totally miss what's going on around you. i guess it's one of those happy medium kinda things.

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Deep into that darkness peering,
long I stood there, wondering, fearing,
Doubting, dreaming dreams
no mortal ever dreamed before.