i used to bitch and moan when my mom insisted that i 'be a gentelman' ... now i'm forever grateful to her as it has more than impressed a number of ladies. i think all women should be treated like queens, with respect and dignity. that's chivarly, too. it gives me a level of sophistication as well ... knowing what fork to use when, holding a door, carrying a drink, offering her the umbrella, standing when she arrives/departs the table ... all these things make me her important, as they should.

Also, it makes me feel a whole lot better about myself and the world around me. Living in the city, i do things (doors, etc.) in spite of people, since many are rude and just don't care, not just on dates nor solely to impress. kill 'em with kindness.

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I guess it comes down to a simple choice, really. Get busy livin' or get busy dyin'.
--in 'Shawshank Redemption'