Actually, we generally come just about at the same time--the movements she makes as she comes will generally drive me over the edge. Also, she likes it vigorous as she comes which also is likely to push me over the edge.


As to the earlier poster who feels that many of the men on here are lying--a lot of it comes down to what you do to her. If you have sex like in a porno movie you aren't going to last very long and she's probably going to be far from orgasm when you blow.
Instead, we have two basic actions: A gentle thrusting that doesn't really involve the traditional in-out movement. I remain basically fully penetrated but alter how I'm pressed against her. It's not as intense as traditional sex but I'd much prefer 20 or 30 minutes this way to a few the traditional way.
The other thing we do is a very slow full stroke, taking perhaps 10-15 seconds to fully withdraw and reinsert, then often remaining pressed against her for another 5-10 seconds as she bucks from the intensity.