I will not bore anyone with personal details: just to say that I have been apart from SO for some time, expecting reunion soon, but it is still yet to be. It will not be surprising that during this time my sole sexual outlet is masturbation. I have off and on been curious about anal play but never experimented with Toys. What I would be interested in is something that could be worn, say, while sitting here, writing, walking around, etc, without causing internal damage, yet give that extra sensation. In my ignorance I went ahead and ordered some beginner-type anal beads but I have a feeling that is not the way to go - fun as they sound to be - or I should have ordered a better type. Any advice on this is much appreciated.