I think mainly you shold keep cool.

Getting blind drunk is a typical youngster idea that usually does not impress anybody. But if you want, go for it. Not my fault then, hehehee.

Take all the time you need. That party is a good happening for getting contacts for the future. Nobody is urged to have sex at that opportunity, seems like you believe that.

Same thing with your online love. Why are you getting stress? You have all time of the world. BTW, wait until you have seen her face and have heard her voice. That could be a surprising surprise...

Good luck and keep cool!

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