I agree completely with the others.

Sounds to me like you're trying to create obstacles where there really are none.

Examine your motives: is it because you're actually not that attracted to him, or is it because you ARE that attracted to him and there's some part of you which doesn't think you deserve to be happy? Or are you just afraid to take the risk of getting hurt, after your ex?

As Lil says, stop trying to be sensible. Good luck and be safe. x

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