05-29-2005, 08:29 PM
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I've been married for almost 18 years and I wanna fuck other men. <~~~~That says nothing about the relationship Mr. Lil and I have and that he and I are comfortable with eachother to the point that I can tell him that and he not take that as threatening to his manhood or our relationship. Fantasy and follow-thru are 2 different things at our house, so far
My personal opinion is that the poster needs more information. Why does he wanna fuck someone else??? Does he just wanna fuck her? Would he follow thru even if you didn't want him to? Is he wanting out of the marriage or does he just want an open one? Does he mind if you do the same? React when there is something to react to. Until then be proactive and find out what is on his mind or conscience. Then you can analyze his ideas and compare them to your own. If they don't coincide then you should do what you feel is right. Your feeling are just as important in the relationship and should be treated as such.
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