Wait for the shock to wear off first before making a rash decision

If ya dont want it to happen then say that there is no way in hell thats happening sonny

If you are of mixed mind wether ya want to or not or you want to go ahead....then sit and discuss it with him....lay the rules on what you expect IF it went ahead

Only you can decide if you can cope with another woman...no one else can really make that decision for you IMHO

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