rold,

WELCOME TO PIXIES!!!

As for your question, I'd say to concentrate on friendships first. If love is meant to happen it will. You can't force love.... of course you can help it along a little..... Be attentive, spend quality time together, if you can't be together call on the phone, make them feel special, like theres no one else like them in the world, small gestures like holding doors, planning a night out based on thier likes, a back rub or foot massage, picking a single flower and presenting it as you tell them how much you enjoyed the night out together, etc..... You don't need to spend alot of money to show your interested but alot of time and alot of yourself.

Stop by the chat room, nice place to meet friends and post on the forums, gives people a chance to know you.

Good luck and have fun!

teddy