Monogamy is not a repressive institution based upon patriarchal oppression (ask any barrister). If we had patriarchal oppression, we would have harems.

Open marriage is an oxymoron - like military intelligence or TV personality.

If you need to fuck whoever takes your fancy or to discover who you are - you are too immature to get married or marraige is not for you, which is fair enough but not for your partner maybe, otherwise you are being selfish which is more likely the reality.

I just object to wrapping this up in some excuse because you have exhausted the sexual possibilities of one partner even though they remain your best bet in the wider unit field.

Just be honest about it. I need to explore more, but keep an eye to the consequences. Put a little more effort in, you may be surprised.

GGGRRRRR

Scary Vigil.

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Vigil, if you were my husband, I would give you poison.

Madam, if you were my wife, I would take it.