Wicked Wanda: Here is an interesting article to read about patriarchal ideals. patriarchal ideal It seems like it does refer to monogamous marriages. I think that perhaps Vigil slipped in the word "oppression" because the patriarchal ideal is often associated with female oppression.

sixsense: I personally think that it seems too idealistic for *most* couples. However, I commend those that have made their open marriage successful...I don't think I could do it.