Romance goes beyond gifts, beyond sex, beyond all such things. What I find romantic is doing something with my girl (who I hope exists somewhere ) that we can both have fun doing, together...and we make it special, just because it's the two of us. One of the most romantic days I had was spending the day at my ex's house back when we were dating - she wanted me to help her work on her computer. We drove around town a lot, bought some parts, did the work, and hung out for a while...and we had the whole place to ourselves. Very rarely since has anything felt so RIGHT...but she's gone now... ;_;...excuse me a minute, folks...