Well, I myself know that I am average in length, but make up for it in width. I am also really good with my tongue, mouth, fingers, and body. At least no vocal complaints that I know of.
As for toys, well there are a lot out there. It all depends on what you are into and what you want to try out. There are various sizes of dildos and vibrators, anal plugs, anal beads, ben wa balls (a personal favorite for my lady), you name it and it is probably out there. I know that in another thread Kim posted a link to an online toy store. I think it is in the thread about Realistic Vaginas, but I have looked through it and have found a few interesting toys that I plan to add to my collection in the near future.

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