thanks for the welcome. Bu is always saying to me to write down some the things i say to her when driving her crazy, maybe some time, but we keep getting distracted.

On other things, the book "women come first" by ian kerner is especially worthy of mention on this subject. We can testify to that given that one of the most memorable times Bu went crazy we woke up the neighbouring rooms in the hotel! Such big grins on our faces remembering that weekend.

Regards,
BuandBear