Dear Jenny,

I love to have my ass teased. I'm not into insertion of large objects, but I have been really turned on by fingers and vibrators. Start with your husband while giving him head. Stroke from under his balls to his anus, and gently tickle it. Some pressure between his balls and anus, then the anus itself should also be exciting to him. Finally the tip of your finger gently in and out as he is coming is a good way to start. Eventually you may want to try anal beads. They are wonderful!

Jay