Sorry, couldn't resist being a smartass on my last reply. But now a little more serious now, some people (m & f alike) never get over being touchy about anal play. I've mostly enjoyed the few times my DW has fingered me, but it's so sensitive it kinda throbs for a while afterwards. But try this; the prostate, the little gland from which most of a man's semen comes, is right in front of his anus; rub that spot, or better yet rub your vibrator against it while you're giving him head, and watch out! You may get more than you bargained for!

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