I read that using shampoo or soap can be very bad for your delicate skin and that conditioner is much better but I don't do it in the shower often and have noticed a little irritation.

I usually use massage oil.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.