when i first started to have sex with my man he made a concentrated effort for me to cum first but the frustration just about killed the pair of us!! in theory it sounds dead sweet but in actual fact my guy usually ends up gettin so turned on when hes tryin to get me to cum that we have to stop everything to let him calm down. so now he usually comes first....but hey whos complainin coz that bits fun for me too and it means that ive got his attention for as long as i want it without any interuptions!!