I, still, swear by my halo mini wand as one of my favorite toys. The husbeast also bought me one of those "real skin" feeling, realistic looking vibrating dildos that also has a warming feature! That was one of the things I've missed over the last 10 yrs since his accident...toys are all well & good..but the heat of the real thing can sometimes be taken for granted.

I've also discovered how to "let go" so to speak. I have always been very self conscious and had a hard time relaxing enough to orgasm easily. A couple of years ago I finally tried a little toke with my husband...and hot smokes! My skin was so sensitive it felt like it was buzzing. Our playtime that night was so. Fucking. Intense. Combined with g-spot stimulus, it turned me into a screamer!

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“Sex is one of the most personal things we do as people. To have someone who says she loves you limit how you express yourself in the bedroom is like a small death. It kills the soul.” --Anita Blake to Jason Schuyler in "Blood Noir" by Laurell K. Hamilton