Come on guys have you thought of talking about your fantasy's. If your not the gelous type chat about where and when the best and worst time and we go on even write a list of questions and get your partner to do the same, and the question you ask them you have to give an awnser too. It dose work.

And for all of you who have kids go out have a good time and on the way back weather it be in a car or up againced a wall have more of a good time...

I also have kids and it is hard...

And for those who have a hi sex drive remember it may take a lot more Q+A to get your partner arosed so take your time.