Dear PussyWillow,

"Hubby would prefer the lights on, I myself like it better in the
dark. He usually defers to me on this subject." Well, he would, wouldn't he? After all, he's married and knows very well who's the boss.

I like some lighting but not enough to shine in our eyes. I like looking as well as licking - mmh! And besides, if you have ever watched a woman coming and felt "Wow - did I do that?" you'll know what a gift it is.

All of which reminds me of a very tasteless joke (not at all applicable to PussyWillow or any other Pixie lady).

Q: Why to married women make love in the dark?
A: Because they can stand to see their husbands having a good time.