My shaving started as "turn about is fair play" when the wife complained of the hair tickling herupper lip when she got further downmy member. I know I enjoy the smooth feel of her outer lips and definately do not miss the roughness when eating her for long periods of time.

As to letting someone else shave me, I would have to know that person alot better . Nicking the skin hurts like hell, and if you are doing an activity where you get sweaty, it makes it worse. However perhaps a mutual "shave party" would be an interesting idea........