My wife and I, before we got married, we cybered on irc. We were both on the same computer together chatting with other people not cybering with ourselves. This was really a turn on for both of us and we always ended up fucking. Once, she got so hot, she sat on my lap and inserted my penis in her while typing to the couple on the other end.

After we got married, the spell was lost and she can even hardly tolerate mentioning about it. I wonder, does marriage have to do anything about loosing the heat? For instance, those times she opened the subject of swinging which i immediately accepted but after being pregnant and getting married, she resigned.