Well i've done the 3-something...that was great. My husband loved it...and so did I. But my fantasy is to be submissive. I want my husband to tell me what to do, when to do it, how to do it. I want to be punished when i dont obey him. I want him to do it because i trust him with everything and i know he wont take things where i dont want them to go. Sometimes he'll start to totaly take control then he pulls back...but i want it all. I've told him...but it hasnt happened yet. I want to be his to do as he pleases.