well, what I wonder is, how can you get her back into that sexual mode? When you met I am sure all was great in the sex department right? So how do you get that back? It sounds like she would not be interested in watching a porn with you, but what about her reading a sexual story? Just reading those stories gets me all wet and ready to rip my husbands clothes off. Maybe if you asked her what she fantasized about or even got on the topic of sex.... I dont know the answer, just thought I would throw some ideas out. Good luck guys!