I'd love to ask my wife about her past sexual experiences. Not too graphic..but just to get a better feel for her. We don't talk alot about sex (maybe thats part of the problem, but she's not willing to share).

I do know that one time before we were married she was somehow involved in some sort of multiple partner experience. I believe a 3-some with her ex and another person. I dont know anything other than that, and am curious as to how it came about and what it was like.

Knowing what happened, might explain some of her feeling about sex. I dont know, but it might be worth a shot.