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Old 03-17-2009, 01:57 AM
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 The 15th day of the 1st lunar month is the Chinese Lantern Festival because the first lunar month is called yuan-month and The 15th day is the first night to see a full moon. So the day is also called Yuan Xiao Festival in China.
  According to the Chinese, at the very beginning of a new year, when there is a bright full moon hanging in the sky, there should be thousands of colorful lanterns hung out for people to appreciate. At this time, people will try to solve the puzzles on the lanterns and eat yuanxiao (glutinous rice ball) and get all their families united in the joyful atmosphere.
This might save a relationship or two.
  Common misconception of people between two couples is that love binds them together. Well, it is a factor, really, But what is more important in a relationship that when combined with love will give a stronger bondage between you and your partner is “trust”.
  With this, problems or arguments between couples will be minimized because everything will be a calm way. It is calm way in a sense that you believed each other's ideas,no complaints, etc.
  But what if lies are told?
  Well, if your partner gives you lies, and you know for sure that it is such, well, try to ask yourself. Do you give the love he/she desires? Do you play your roles as husband/wife perfectly? ;Questions like that because what you show or give to your partner becomes his reflection, thus, striking it back on you. So try to be more conscious on your efforts.
  But of course there are people who really are jerks By this,I am referring to those who break the hearts of others despite of the love they are receiving. The only thing I can say about them is “they have their own day”. Just move on if you experienced someone like this. They don't worth a time spending with.
  As I was saying about Trust, with this, you two are confident of each other's actions and decisions No blaming stuffs when failure happens because both of you agreed on that choice.
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