MM,

The link is tom hubbards site which he took down. These message boards have the information. They are free.

http://www.thundersplace.com/forum/index.php?s=

http://pub14.ezboard.com/bpeforums

The reason I felt inadequate was because I could not feel anything during sex. It was that simple. I figured if I felt nothing, my wife felt nothing also. Twas correct.

So, either she needed to become tighter, or I needed to become bigger. I was lucky to find those sites and luckier still that it worked well for me. Now, sex is better than before my wife had kids.

Once you get down to it, it is just physics.

SM