All of the above, take out the part about "no thought of her"...
Does fucking have to be the end goal... not unless you're trying to get pregnant (& that's not an option for us anymore)... so our sex sessions tend to blur the line of foreplay; kissing, sucking, fucking, eating, repeat as needed in no particular order, till someone says "uncle"!
Also to go with what Nubian says, eating her is a special pleasure all its own (my wife, that is... I'm sure eating his wife would be great as well)

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