rollergrl,

I mailed a friend of mine whose lesbian and copied her advice below. I have excised the part where she told me I had a lot of nerve


Hope this helps,
chrome

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i think it's pretty much the same as it would be for a guy with a new woman. the dick part is different, but other than that??? take your time. too slow is always better than too fast. don't be afraid to try something new, but make sure to ask how she feels about it. don't just ask what she likes, talk about what you like too. remember that she's probably as insecure as you are. talk matters more than techinque. if you talk you'll figure the rest out. no scary toys unless you know she's ok with it.