this might sound abit odd but i met my wife over the phone and we did spend a weekend together and she is 11 years older than i am and we have been married alittle over 8 years
if you feel your heart is right then go for it the worst that could happen is after the weekend she or you decide that was not what you wanted or you could end up like me and have a lovely wife did i mention she has 3 daughters from her first marriage so i got a real good deal from a weekend meeting
i hope this help you Nice Guy
btw Love diva i agree who can keep up with you