Rollrgrl,
If your asking the question, it seems the answer is right under your nose. Or will be if you play your cards right.
I assume that she has already let you know what she desires. Go slow, and enjoy. I remember a date in college that I had no ultimate goal other than enjoying the evening. I ended up having one hell of a semester!
Let me know more about it. Eowyn


I thought the pic (if it works) very erotic.