Sorry Monstar, but if you want to get freaky sexually, it's obvious from the beginning of the thread your g/f isn't ready for that.
If that's what you really want then you need to do the mature thing and walk away from that realationship and find a girl that is into the freaky sex. (By the way, I'm with you on the freaky sex, especially the anal!) But you need to have a partner that is into also... you can't make someone want it, or enjoy it the way you want them to. And to qoute Diva : "You have your whole life ahead of you...don't rush into everything right now.... "