me and my fiance both cyber. sometimes in the morning i wake him up with a wee blow job but i dont let him cum, so that starts him off kinda hot under the collar. while we are at work we send each other rather x rated emails or maybe even a quick fone call and during our breaks we get online and either cyber with each other, when we tell each other what we r gonna do to each other when we get home, or else we might cyber with someone else. but the anticipation definetly gets you really worked up the whole day and bang goes all the plans for a nice dinner that night!! but what can i say?? it keeps the spice in our sex life, we might do it quite alot but we have never do the exact same thing twice (except for maybe our favourite stuff!!)