Thanks for the welcome.

Actually I think he was just really messed up. He says (but how much can we really believe what someone says) that his first g/f got him to do a bunch of stuff (I won't go into details) and I think that messed him up. Made him think sex (before marriage, I wonder what he thought about marital sex) was immoral and sinful. He had a sex therapist, but she didn't tell him sex was a sin so he stopped going.

But after a while he tried getting me into the crap he said she made him do and he wasn't into and I refused cuz some of it was just plain gross and unhealthy (and I'm very open-minded about sex). So I'm not sure how much he wants to believe is the girl's fault. I think he had trouble accepting responsibility for his actions (cuz he was an instigater).

I don't judge him and I never made him think he was inferiour to other men, cuz that's plain wrong. We all have parts of our bodies we like/dislike and I think it's who's inside that really counts. But a nice butt goes a long way!

Anyway, thanks again for the welcome.
Sweet Chastity