I knew whey you just sat in the corner at the party and took everything in. I now have the same question. "How in the world did our young lady become so wise, so early?"

MonStar- You truly may want to reread SugarFree’s response. (I have, a couple times.) She speaks the truth…….. and right from your eye level.

The very little I could add is from the gender and veterans prospective. I SO loudly hear your internal pleas (to YOU as well as her) for that total sexual engulfment.
All I can say that might make sense is it’s a lot like that kids toy substance, “SILLY PUTTY”. When you strike a sphere of the stuff with a hammer, it just brakes apart and goes every place but where you want it. If you press into it gently, slowly, watching what it is doing, it yields and does surround you in way you weren’t even prepared for.

I KNOW the drive. You’re right, it is from somewhere special…….and it will take you somewhere special.
But like climbing Mt. Everest, it takes time, you experience things along the way you never dreamt of. Taking a helicopter trip to the top is not only cheating, it’s cheating you and it’s not CLIMBING.:yellghst:

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