I don't think so... the Q was have you ever cut him off to punish or control him, which is not nice... holding out to tease, playing hard to get, with the intention of intensifying the sex when it does happen, is just another one of these games we play to liven things up (and very nice when it works)! Saying no cuz you're just not up to it, well, can't help that... I get a little mad when that happens, but I get over it, it's just not as fun if you're both not into it.
yeh, I get that too, so I flash her back sometimes... or just lay it out on her shoulder while she's online!

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