We had sex in 3 hours of meeting, very hot, whipped cream, sexy talk, she very aggressive. After 1 year now sex has dropped to once biweekly. Despite backrubs, constant compliments of how beautiful she is, doing all I can to help around her home, treating her like a queen w/conscienceious efforts, nothing works. All she wants to do is cuddle at night. Even snapping at me not to touch her, closing her legs tightly even during caresses, refusing oral sex on her which she loved. She will dress sexy, grope, make eyes and suggestive comments often open flirtatious but never comes to futation. When sex actually happens she seems generally cold wanting me to cum quickly while I've always been a romantic. Size isn't an issue as she often commented I should have been a porno star. I'm a one lady man turning away interested parties. I'm told I'm always smiling and joking. No relationship has every been like this. I've graciously turned away a few of her friends that insist I'm wonderful and deserve better. I'm flattered but reply, she is in my heart and I lover her. I've questioned if she liked women but she aggressively makes a face saying that's discusting. Asking what really excites her, she says she likes porno movies which I've tried several times but she seems very uninterested even then. She says her job tires her out but it's the same job she had when we met. I'm now lonely, frustrated and efforts to talk are short with a scarstic "Oh poor guy." It's wearing on the relationship now. What's a man to do? She 53, me 47.