Cowboy- you indicated your lady is 53, is it possible she is in some phase of menopause? My situation with my wife got almost exactly like you describe, going from her enjoying sex to avoiding it, even though she showed she still loved me in every other way you can imagine. It turned out some of her medical problems caused her to go into menopause in her early 30's and it took a couple of years before things started normalizing. Her other health problems kept her from ever getting like a nympho again, but many women say they get hornier than ever before in their lives once they get past menopause. If she is your true love, just keep on loving her and being patient, and hopefully things will improve. Pixies Place is a great place to find lots of sexy fun for yourself while you are short-changed at home ;-)

God bless! MrCuriousUSA