<< Yesterday I made him cum 4 x's ... the most commmon way for me to get him off is to give him a BJ ... He gets turned on easily, and I have no problems cumming. >>

I see... I think ... so what is the problem here? Seriously, after cumming 4x's, not getting it up again is normal; if you're both enjoying yourselves, that's what's important, & I envy you both!