I'm completely in the same boat. I've been attracted to other women, and find myself fantasicing to some degree about being with one. My boyfriend says he has no problem incorperating another into our play, but a million things run through my head with the thought. Mainly my own insecurities, but I really fear that some insecurities would present themselves for him too. He's a wonderful man and I'd hate to do anything to jeopardize our relationship. At the sametime I'd love to make his and my fantasy come true... Oh to be able to look into the future before taking the plunge. Let me know if anyone else is coming from this place or has been here and can relate their own personal experiences.. good and bad.

Thanks,
Jenny

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