My approach to lovemaking is essentially "anything once...twice if I like it ".

There are some things I'd like to try that Mrs. WI has expressed no interest in. It'd be interesting to try, just for the experience, but having survived this long without going there leads me to believe my life doesn't depend on them. One of those things on my "to do" list is golden showers. I'd be more comfortable on the receiving end, simply because I just can't reconcile peeing on someone in a respectful way. I know, it's silly to think like that, but my mind isn't there yet.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.