Its the same in my case, WI. Mrs. K did not even respond when I e-mailed her a brief description of my fantasy for golden play. She thought I could not be serious about such a thing and yes there is the idea that it is peeing in my direction would be disrespectful but maybe thats what intrigues me. I am so obsessed with this I have begun imagining other women doing this with me. My wife is a very vanilla type. Not that she would refuse anything but she will make it plain that she is just doing this for me and, as you can imagine, this takes a bit of the excitement out of things. Have you ever broached this subject with Mrs. WI?