I think most women are brought up being told to be "a good girl", and "he won't buy the cow if the milks for free"! I know I did! That's why I have such an infatuation with being as slutty as possible when I'm being intimate. Just the thought of being so into the pleasure and excitement that I can let go and flow with it, excites me! BUT...it is nearly impossible to find someone that can leave that "your my slutty whore" attitude behind and treat me with respect when we are not being intimate.