1. Would you ever consider having an affair?
yes in a heartbeat
2. If yes, would you ever tell your husband/wife?
yes, it would not be cheating because he would know
3. What would you think about the person who you had relations with outside your marriage (get attached, keep it just physical, think about their morals)?
I could not, would not risk what I have to just fuck someone. I have to have a reason /need to fuck them. I agree that they may be filling a need that is lacking in my relationship. I also feel I am polyamorous and can have more than one type of relationship with a man/ men. My husband is the only one I wanna spend forever with but I wouldn't mind leasing someone else
4. How would you justify this decision to yourself?
I would not. If I have a relationship with someone else and keep it from my husband then I would take complete responsibility for having made that choice.
5. Do you believe an affair is a good long-term solution?
For me an open marriage would be an ideal situation. I never see deception as a solution.