Hi, everyone! I just wrote a new article called, '17 Characteristics of Highly Effective Lovers'. I would love to get your opinions - good, bad, or indifferent. I'm not a professional sex therapist or professional writer, or anything. Just a regular guy trying to learn to be the best lover I can be. I'd love to hear what you like or don't like about it.

You can find it here:
http://www.clitical.com/articles/17...tive-lovers.php

I am a big fan of humor Michael Smith.... I am glad that you did include that in your article........ (may try a game or two)

Are you a regular contributor to that site? I clicked on the link section.... wouldn't it be nice to have a special link there leading readers to pixies-place.com????

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Michael writes great articles! I agree they need a link

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Loved the article...you're a good writer, that's for sure. I think most of your 17 points were dead on and I particularly like the fact that yours had a good balance between the physical and mental (read spirtual) aspects of lovemaking. (So many articles of this genre neglect the spiritual aspect, tending to focus, instead, on sexual techniques and spinal injury-inducing positions.)

Definitely a good read.

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Thank you all for the feedback and the kind words!

I'll talk to them about a link, Lilith.

Nubian, the reason the article has a good balance of information is because I get most of my information from talking to sex savvy people, like yourself, on great sites like Pixie's Place. I've learned a lot by paying attention to you guys! Thank you!

Yeah, I write for them pretty regularly, Cheyenne. I'm not a professional, but I really love doing it. I learn an awful lot.

So far, I've written:
A Man's Role in His Lady's Positive Body Image, The Most Common Mistakes We Make in Bed (According to Our Sex Partners), 17 Characteristics of Highly Effective Lovers, Sexual Positions Demystified, and I just finished Tools for Assertive and Effective Communication. They can all be found on that site.

Thanks again for taking the time to read it and give me your feedback. I like to know if I'm on the right track or not!

Great article,Thank yo for sharing it with us.Are you gong to have it published?

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Hi, Lakritze!

I'm working on a book right now. It's a huge undertaking, so it's still going to be a long time before it's done. In the meantime, I like to write articles to improve my knowledge and develop stronger writing skills. I'll inform everyone when I get the book done. In the meantime, thank you for the kind words and encouragement.