I have heard from several sources, that if you use vibrator often it can make it more difficult to cum during regular sex. I guess your body begins to need the intense stimulation that the vibrator provides and is less reactive to typical touch. I would try to ease up on the vibrator and just be "handy" for a period of time. Another idea would be to use the vibrator externally while he is inside you. Hope you get rid of that headache! Good luck!

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Vibe is an overstimulation.

No-one can compete with a vibe in a fair race.

Make up your mind, the vibe or the fellow.

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Have them both! While having intercourse, use the vibrator to stimulate your clit or other areas of your body. I like the feeling! As I slide in and out of my partner from behind she will use the vibrator on her clit and I occassionally feel the vibrations TOO!!! VERY NICE feeling.

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When you are alone with yourself you can try learning to react to the normal stimulation again. Leave the vibe in the drawer and try touching your sensitive points as slight as possible. Continue as far as you can come. Probably you will see that this works surprisingly well.
I had a time I masturbated so hard that I got an inflammation on my cock´s tip. That was because the normal stimulation was not enough. The itching forced me to do it very carefully, and, surprise, surprise, it worked.

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Aha, that´s it! You can´t relax. Try to find out what causes the stress you have. Is it possible that you have stress because you want to cum?
Accept that you can have bad days also. Simply relax, without forcing anything. Because forcing means stress. Stress means that you cannot get what you want to force.

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Well you never said if the vibrator while he was fucking you worked or not? I was just wondering. As a guy I have found that jacking of online and phone have made me be able to go long when I am with my gf. I can fuck her through two orgasms before I cum. Which she loves. But I can see why that wouldnt be good for a woman.